Havde egentlig ikke tænkt mig at læse den. Men Hr. Ronson leverer faktisk noget, der er tidsinvesteringen værd.

Havde egentlig ikke tænkt mig at læse den. Men Hr. Ronson leverer faktisk noget, der er tidsinvesteringen værd.

“She said to me, ‘Whenever power is involved, there always has to be a competing narrative. And you have no narrative.’ It was true. I had mistakenly thought that if I retreated from public life the narrative would dissipate. But instead it ran away from me even more.”

When a man is shamed, it’s usually, “I’m going to get you fired.” When a woman is shamed it’s, “I’m going to rape you and get you fired.”

"I see bullying as similar to cutting. People who cut are trying to localise their pain. I think with bullying, people are suffering for myriad reasons and are projecting it. Instead of cutting themselves, they’re cutting someone else.”

https://www.theguardian.com/technology/2016/apr/16/monica-lewinsky-shame-sticks-like-tar-jon-ronson