"The things I believed, said, and did when I was an incel were hateful, ignorant, and wrong.

"The things I believed, said, and did when I was an incel were hateful, ignorant, and wrong. I make no attempt to suggest that my inceldom was okay. It wasn’t. It was a wicked manifestation of pain, self-pity, and lack of self-responsibility, as well as serious, debilitating mental illness. But I will try to make sense of it, in the hope that it might help others to understand what makes an incel and what unmakes an incel."

Lang historie fra autismens overdrev.

https://quillette.com/2018/07/18/i-was-a-female-incel/

I Was a Female Incel - Quillette

Author’s Note: I have chosen to publish this essay under a pseudonym to preserve my anonymity and the anonymity of others mentioned in my story. I respectfully ask anyone who believes they can identify me from what follows to respect my request for privacy.  ...